Hmmm.....

[miss_merry_chan]

So...My mom thinks that Pleiadians are fake and that 2012 is fake and she's basically told me a billion times today that I'm boring to listen to and that I am wrong. Fine if she doesn't believe in it, but does she have to say I'm wrong in believing? That's a little judgmental me thinks.

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[bostonwifeandmom]

Um a little jugemental? Hon I think she's being TOTALLY judgemental here and she shouldn't be saying you're wrong for beliving the beliefs you do believe.

She should not have said you were boring. God, what the hell is her problem today? I'm sorry she's being like this to you :(

*hugs*

Did you change your layout again?? LOL, before it was another color and now it's purple... LOL.

[miss_merry_chan]

Yeah, I guess you're right. See, before her heart attack, she was spiritual like me. Then when she got sick, a bunch of the local churches helped out, and she felt like she should go back. I guess to 'pay them back' in a sense. I think a bunch of her friends made her judgmental. All she wants to do now is gossip with them, and I know that's not my mom. :( And when we're in a group, I try to join in, you know, to be joining in, and I always feel horrible to be making fun and being mean about people. :(

[snoissesbo]

My boyfriend's mom thinks the Egyptians are fake o__O

Personally, I don't believe that 2012 will bring the end of the world (as in the end of all that exists) but if you take the Pleiadians and Nostradamus together, it could very well be the end of the world as we know it. As in a really really big change happening. Besides, if you look at the Apocalypse as it is described in the Bible, it is not the end of the world but a time of great change. I don't know. I guess we'll find out soon enough.

Telling you you're wrong and boring for believing in that is just wrong though. We're all entitled to our own beliefs and respecting other people's beliefs even when they don't agree with ours should be a part of that. Too many people forget that :(

[miss_merry_chan]

I agree. I don't think the world will be ending or anything like that. I just think (hope) that something good will happen in 2012, you know?

Yeah, you're right. I hate it when people like to judge others or make fun of them. :( I try not to.

[snoissesbo]

I'm hoping for something good too.

Same here. I try not to as well. I do poke fun at people whom I know react well to that sort of thing (my boyfriend is the perfect example of that) and sometimes at people who are taking themselves WAY too seriously. I don't do it with the intent to hurt or laugh at them but just as a nudge and a way of saying "hey, relax. Life is cool."

I tend to have a hard time judging people (which I think is good) because I have a lot of difficulty labeling them (and myself). Because, you know, people are just so much more than a bunch of labels and stereotypes.

[miss_merry_chan]

Exactly! When it's all in play, and they know it, I'll do it. But not out of meanness. :( And you're right. We're not jars that need labeling, we're people!